Saturday, August 7, 2010

Delmer's birthday


Today is my baby brother's birthday. He's 46 (I think!). I'm figuring that based on the fact that I'm 59, and he's 13 years my junior. I'm thinking of re-friending him on Facebook, but it would mean that I'd be vulnerable to his right-wing whacko politics again, and that would make me angry with him all over again. Sigh.

Speaking of Facebook, I noticed that my husband's niece has "friended" her mother, my former arch-enemy. There are only a few people that I dislike and fear, and she's one of them. It's hard to feel kind-hearted toward someone who has done the stuff this woman has done. She's a real nut job. Maria sees this woman regularly (they work near each other), and the woman always gives her the cold-shoulder, just based on the fact that Maria is MY friend. I've often wished I had the courage to tell this woman just how vile I think she is, but she is truly a crazy woman, and there's no telling what she would do. So I have kept my mouth shut, more or less, although I don't mind telling anyone who will listen that this woman whispered to me--with a SMILE on her face--that she hoped that I died and rotted in hell. She did it more than once, so it isn't as if I misunderstood her. Shudder. My mother-in-law said the last time she saw her ex-daughter-in-law was eleven years ago and that she looked really bad, including having lost some teeth. It's almost enough for me to believe that karma is real.

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